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Get grounded.

6/15/2018

 
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So often what I am inspired to share in my blog is advised by the skills I see clients most seeking, or find I am most frequently recommending.  This particular skill- grounding- you may have heard of before (especially if you have sat in my office!) and I have referenced in past posts. But- it is so powerful and has gotten so much clinical mileage for me lately that a blog post dedicated to the skill seemed apt.  

Let’s test what you know.  I was in an HR based skills training trying to get clinicians to buy in to some organizational changes several jobs ago.  The hook to the training was about tying your shoe.  The presenter said things that you think you know how to do and have been doing for years, you may be doing wrong.  To prove the point, the presenter showed us all the “correct” way to tie our shoes- which was different by one move for most of us.  I share that experience to say to you- you may think you know grounding- but there may be more to learn to do it more effectively for yourself.  (I think I am in a story-telling mode to illustrate points from listening to Caroline Casey’s audiobook- which is wonderful by the way). 

Grounding, put simply, is focusing on “lizard brain” things and not “prefrontal cortex” things.  In other words, I am not interested in what your inner cerebral committee has to say during grounding exercise.  I am interested in sensory experiences and direct data input happening in real time from the world around me.  What happens is, since we are higher brain capacity and cognitive beings, we can become tied up in those parts of ourselves to our detriment.  Life experiences can also take control and get us “stuck” in our heads.  Grounding is essentially doing something, or a series of somethings, to bring you back into basic functioning and absorption of immediate experiences.  

Something you may have mislearned:  meditation does not mean grounding.  Meditation can be relaxing and has a great many therapeutic benefits (I definitely use them myself and in client work!) but they are not what I mean by grounding exercises.  Oftentimes, we hear meditation and mindfulness used interchangeably and together, and so equate them.  In fact, meditation is not the same as mindfulness, which is closer to grounding activities.

I also want you to understand that while grounding exercises are be necessity very simple, there is power in that simplicity and such is the point.  When you are doing these exercises your goal is to engage in them at a length of time that is proportionate to the amount of stress you were under before you began.  You are trying to bring yourself out of your head and into the present, so you have to spend as much time coming out of the rabbit hole as you spent going in.

Grounding exercises are also not the same as coping skills.  While grounding can be used as a type of coping skill, and some coping skills are certainly grounding, an association does not a mirror make.   Remember too, that coping skills are meant to help you survive a period of time or a certain thing- that is their function.  The function of grounding is to accomplish a very specific thing- take you out of your intellectualizing prefrontal cortex altogether. 

Of course I wouldn’t share an article with you about grounding without giving you some grounding exercises to try.  While these are good exercises for anyone, I have found this particular list to be especially useful to creative people:

  1. Breathe deeply.  Flood your bloodstream with oxygen and biologically your heart slows down and your body feels good.  In fact- the same type of euphoria you may get from other things maybe not as good for you as oxygen- happens to you when you deep breathe.
  2. Get outside.  We are living organisms. We are meant to have fresh air, sunshine, sky over our heads and earth beneath our feet. In fact, the vibration of the atoms in our cells change when we are in the amazing living energy available to us outside.
  3. Name colors.  Creative people are often visual people so this may be a dominant sense for you.  Since grounding is about fully engaging our senses, focusing on and attending to visual field cues can be especially powerful.
  4. Scan for sensory input.  Some of us are more in tune with other senses (musician? Ears. Dancer? Physical sensation. And so on).  By taking time to check in and attend to sensory input for each sense, we are guiding cerebral activity away from over analyzing, negative thinking etc and into the present experience.
  5. Name shapes. This is a variation on number 3, but you may “vibe” more with shape cues than color.
  6. Name objects.  This is a combination of 3 and 5.  This allows you to bridge cognition- using language- with sensory input- describing visual cues- to ease into grounding yourself in the present moment.
  7. Observe your orientation.  In psychology one of the quick ways to check on someone’s mental state is to ask them questions to see if they are oriented to person, place and time.  Take a moment to check in with yourself to do the same- you might say aloud, “I am Cindy, I am at home, it is 4pm” or whatever the case may be.  
  8. Speak affirmations.  The function of this is to soothe your inner psyche (“I’m safe”) ground yourself with the sound of your voice, and change the course of whatever other thoughts were taking dominance in your mind. 
  9. Engage in stronger sensory experiences.  Sometimes paying attention to what you are experiencing isn’t enough and we need to up the ante.  Try increasing the power of your sensory experiences until you are able to focus solely on them.  Hold ice (safely!). Wash dishes. Take a warm shower. Light a candle. Eat a dessert. This can also bridge into self-soothing land (you can read the blog post about self soothing if you click the therapy skills category)
I encourage you not to underestimate our underuse this powerful skill.  Find ways to bring it into your every day life if you can.  It will help your daily functioning and make it easier to access when you need it for more powerful and difficult reasons. ​

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    Cindy Cisneros

    ​is a Creativity Coach, Creative Therapist and Professional Artist in Sykesville, Maryland.  She is an expert straddling the realms of arts, creativity research, psychology, therapy, and coaching. She provides Online Creativity Counseling in Maryland and Virginia, and Online Creativity Coaching throughout the USA, Canada and the UK tailored for the discerning, imaginative, artistic, and neurodiverse.

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